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A petition to ban birthday cakes at the office

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Our events are starting to kick off - and yes, of course you’re invited. See below for more details.

This week we’re questioning birthday cakes at the office, £12 lattes, and relative thinking. Happy reading!

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HAPPENING AT CASA CINCO

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FOR INSPIRATION

Casa Cinco is all about connection - meaningful connection. But, how do you get people to connect meaningfully? That is what Priya Parker set out to answer in her book, The Art of Gathering. Her take: our everyday gatherings are missing purpose, (good) controversy, and rules. 

I’ll give you an example. There are few things I enjoy less than birthdays at the office. You’re deep into your work when Janet from HR randomly ushers you to a conference room because “it’s Timmy’s birthday, shhh!”. Upon being called last, Timmy enters the room to the count of three after which a cacophonous Happy Birthday is attempted by a max. of five people. Timmy blows his candles and everyone returns to their seats. End of celebration. No meaningful connection.

Put simply, we have stopped paying attention to the way we gather. At Casa Cinco, we want to reincorporate meaningful connection into everyday gatherings. You too? You can start by following Priya’s three steps: 

  1. Set a purpose to your gathering: Must be specific and disputable, meaning the event isn’t meant for everybody (and no, ‘birthday’ isn’t a purpose - it’s an event category)

  2. Encourage (good) controversy: Gatherings now sound the same - just small talk around weather, work, and weather again. While etiquette may preserve some harmony, it strips out the heat in gathering. Ask that random question, say that weird thing, tell that incredible story. Spice it up people!

  3. Set rules: Explicit pop-up rules as simple as “no phones during Timmy’s celebration” or “no talking about the weather” can have immense power in creating a temporary, alternative world. Get creative and be clear

The inspiration for you is: ban birthday cakes at the office and follow the steps above instead. Remember - gatherings are conduits for human connection, not just checklists and small talk. Happy birthday imaginary Timmy!

FOR CONVERSATION

@simplyrasha

I got so many questions about reservations and prices at the Louis Vuitton café in Paris so here are all the details! 📍2 Rue du Pont Neuf... See more

For the first time since the COVID-19 pandemic, global spend on luxury experiences surpassed that of luxury goods. This trend is only expected to continue as Gen Z and Gen Alpha grow to dominate global luxury spend in the next decade (yes, we’re all wondering how young people can afford nice things).

A recent masterclass at EHL posed the question: is the luxury industry getting into hospitality, or is hospitality becoming a core competence of luxury brands?

I want to think the answer is obvious: hospitality has to be a core competence of all brands - not just luxury. It all comes down to connection. However… if we’re spending £12* on a Louis Vuitton latte, are we seeking connection or doing it for the ‘Gram?

*Price not verified

FOR ACTION

We’re taught to think in relative terms, when we should embrace the absolute. No fancy quote here, this is a Casa Cinco maxim. Picture below for added dramatic effect.

Think about it. Got a 10% discount? Well, you still spent £100 on shoes you didn’t need. Your marketing expenses were “only” 5% above budget? That’s a couple thousand the company could have invested on team building instead. You are thankful because others don’t have it as good as you? That should make you mad, not thankful.

Embrace the absolute and notice how it changes your perception of value. Thought piece on this coming soon (more of a rant than a thought piece, but actionable nonetheless).

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Phil Knight, Shoedog

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